 | | I think of people that come for counseling as being out of sync in some | | | important way with their life circumstances. They are struggling with an interpersonal issue or they may be using repetitious ways of living that once served them, but that are now problematic and self-limiting. Adverse effects of trauma experiences, including childhood abuse and domestic violence, may be affecting their ability to respond effectively to otherwise normal events even years after the abuse ended.
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 | | Change involves helping you to undo the harmful results of faulty learning, | | | emotional hurts, and misinformation that have generated repetitious ways of living that no longer serve you. The process of change begins by defining the issues, addressing connected thoughts and feelings, understanding how these issues show up in different contexts (work, school, family, intimate relationships), and developing strategies for resolving them. The goal being to free you from the constraints of the problem and the emotional history that generated it.
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 | | This process necessitates a safe environment in which you can feel valued | | | and respected, and your difficulties viewed simply as the result of the kinds of untoward experiences mentioned above. In such an environment, you will develop the safety to examine all assumptions, attitudes and motivations that place limits on the potentialities for your life and to explore new ways of being. .
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 | | I am guided by an integrative philosophy that draws on all the major schools | | | of psychology. I provide options that include evidence based practices for depression, anxiety and trauma. My counseling philosophy and approach is grounded in compassion, mutual respect and trust.
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